In games you can always expect a winner to conquer the fight and a loser who shall fall under the line of failure. But I always say to myself that a man isn’t identified by how many games or war he won instead he is identified by how good he handle and accept his losses. But I think we all have our goal setting set to winning. And believe me, its normal. The human is created with a fair amount of strength to act competitively most of the time. We all want to be better than our enemies, neighbors, and even with our own friends. If I were you don’t be too competitive and play professionally. In the field you should show your competitiveness but once you step out the ring you shouldn’t brag about your success and you shouldn’t be bitter by your loss. Goal setting of winning is for gamers, remember that.